I have been married with a doc for 4 years, we have been moving every year due to his fellowship, residency and so on, i have been losing job opportinities and living with no families,friends around due to his career. You are too young to deal with this. After residency, depending on what specialty they do, there will be a separate set of rules of how they have to give their time oncall, early surgery times, working holidays etc. Work out as many as you can before marriage happens. I don't want to advocate manipulation but asking questions concerning Joseph's dishonesty about polygamy to his first wife and his marriage of other men's wives and marriage of a 14 year old may prove more fruitful than just saying wow polygamy is messed up. If you are willing to wait, then well and good; otherwise, it is best to move on. Hi Ladies- My man is an emergency room physician in his mid 50's. It's unfair to assume that she feels that way without asking her. We all wondered why should would go against such a blessing. If she is open to questioning her faith, perhaps she can chase you down.
I have no family nearby as I am from a different country. She is going on a mission which means she is heavily invested in performing according to the cultural expectations. TwoXChromosomes submitted 4 years ago by datingprofession.
If you are both in high school, she may refuse altogether. Did U have sex with her yet. Will he possible convert just to make you happy without really buying into it. Would you rather give up the prospect of being married in the temple, the assurance of children being raised in the church, and parts of Mormon culture for your boyfriend, or a great man for your beliefs.
After all, when he IS around, he never makes them do anything they don't want to do, and he buys them expensive things to make up for being absent from their lives so much. I've had friends with spouses that got Fulbrights or grants to study in other countries. She is going on a mission which means she is heavily invested in performing according to the cultural expectations. All you care about is the paycheck.