Can he see the good in it, or does he focus on the more controversial aspects. I am willing to add his religious observances to our worship as a couple and as a family, but should I also be willing to give up some of my participation in my own faith в for example by attending the temple or Sunday services slightly less often in order to spend more time as an entire family. So when our children bring home a potential mate that has cultural, racial, religious or other big differences then our child, our concerns immediately flare up. I dated non mormon men. He would not appreciate my sacrifice of course, because they are often very self-center mind. It's all about timing, and you're in two different places. I knew a guy who joined the Mormon church because he thought it would help him date a certain Mormon girl, a girl who refused to date non-Mormons. Just talk to her honestly, and if you have to, use the old wonder of logic. You will have to make sacrifice your happiness a little.
First and most importantly, I see major trust issues in your future if you both think the other is brainwashed. To those asking about pre-med boyfriends, mcat, first year, med school boyfriends: You never accomplish half what you set out to do, and taking practice exams is the most anxiety provoking experience. Notify me of new comments via email. Your comment is SO spot on in my experience. Sorry dude, she is in way to deep. I hope he wised up. I say to you, decisions determine destiny. He started to reflect on how he had become accustomed to missing the day to day moments but these were the big ones that were now being pushed behind his work in priorities.
I suppose it depends on your personality. There are so many names in both English and Chinese. And you will be shocked.
Understand that it's their belief, and make plans for any of the other 6 days instead. I would need to ask my husband again. I've been thinking more about your situation and another thing came to mind. He will have to wait outside if his children marry in the temple. Mormonism has a lay clergy, so everyone serves in the Church. My family says I should leave him…. All that matters to her is things are how they are because god wants them that way. I have been married for 2 years now and I'm concerned that if we dont work something out soon, it will only get worse as he dives into his profession even further. I intend to spend some quality time in the temple, with my bishop, and with close family and friends as I think and pray my way through this decision, but I would also value your insights into this.